Time is flying by so fast , we have reached the end of march already and I am still alive trying to do my best . As it was originally scheduled I was supposed to be in Simikot by the beginning of march , right after the presentation of the annual report to the members of the government .
To go to Simikot we first take the night bus all the way to Nepalgunj (about 15h bus ride ) then the plane to Simikot .Early march we were ready to go but the airport was closed : people were on strike because of the rise of the price of the airline ticket, then a woman died in the airport , she needed intensive care, and as the planes were not flying , she could not be taken to the hospital . So every day became a “tomorrow”. This situation gave me time to play the tourist and I visited some Buddhist temples and the cities of Pathan Bauda Bakthapur.
Then by the end of last week , we were informed that our children home would receive 20 new children from an orphanage that had been closed for ill treatment on the children .
You should have seen the activity in the home from ten we were going to be thirty boys and girls . Just imagine the set up of the beds, sheets ,pillows ,blankets , then the kitchen and what is needed to cook and the food reserves and the place to eat ! in one day with the help of the Teen agers currently living in the house we managed all that .
The “new” children arrived on Sunday mid afternoon . They were welcome with tea and cookies and then assigned to their room .
The ground floor was for the 6 “little boys” from 5 to 10 years old and I was sleeping next to them on the ground floor .The first floor was for the 14 girls from 9 to 16 . and the 2nd floor was for the team of the 7 boy teen agers . Many eyes were crying, eyes full of questions unable to be expressed with words . We tried to do our best but not easy when you do not speak the language , even tough all these children speak a good English .They all arrived with a little back pack with their school books and a few clothes in it and also a few “treasures” some of them could save. Before dinner the youngest ones had a shower on the terrasse, and fortunately the “mother” of the house had bought enough “special shampoo” it was sure needed !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and still today .
For the first dinner , I think there was too much sadness in most of the stomachs of all these youngsters to eat . Everyone went to bed at around 8and half pm . The little boys slept in the clothes they arrived with holding tight on what they had ! That very night no electricity , and the little boys wanted light !!! At around one , a little boy got up for pipi and the other ones followed , fortunately electricity was back . then after a while “caca” and there I found the youngest one with his 2 feet on top of the bowl holding it tight with his 2 hands to avoid falling as it was wet and slippery ! they did not know that kind of toilets ! At that time I was able to laugh, I try to explain to him but difficult for him to understand .
The next morning 5:30 am they were all awake and trying to understand what was going to happen next . We served tea and biscuits, then with the help of the house keeper we started to sort out the clothes and soak them in soapy water : the washing machine was my 2 hands with a strong brush a piece of soap and cold water and sunshine as dryer!
This first morning 12 of the group went to school with the most smelly and filthy clothes ! When they came back their clothes were dried and they could change in clean clothes . We started to see smiles on the faces and slowly they realize that this new place was safe !!!!!!!
Not a very easy situation to handle . I try to not have pity but compassion and understanding
and comprehension
But they are still in a survival stage and the violence among them is difficult to describe .
Some of them were already alone in the streets at the age of 4 .
So I try to take care of all the little headaches and wounds, and twisted wrist and ankles !
And now the 6 of them know me enough to crawl under my blanket at 5:30am !
That’s all for today
Normally I should leave tomorrow for Simikot !